As the caregiver for an elderly parent, it is important to provide them with the best possible care and support as they age. However, as their needs change and they require more assistance with daily activities, it may become necessary to consider an assisted care facility. While this decision can be difficult and may cause feelings of guilt, it is important to remember that assisted care facilities are designed to provide seniors with the support and resources they need to maintain their independence and dignity, and to help them age gracefully.
An assisted care facility will provide a level of care that you are unable to match
In many cases, moving a loved one into an assisted care facility can actually provide them with better care and support than what is possible at home, especially if their care needs are complex or if family caregivers are unable to provide the necessary level of care. It is also important to remember that moving a loved one into an assisted care facility does not mean that you are rejecting them or abandoning them. Instead, it is a decision that is made with their best interests in mind, and it is an opportunity to provide them with the care and support they need to maintain a high quality of life.
It is, however, important to support our parents and maintain a close relationship with them during this transition and to regularly visit them in their new home. Here are a few reasons why it is important to visit your parents regularly when they are in an assisted care facility:
- Sense of purpose and connection: For many seniors, moving into a care facility can be a significant life change that can affect their sense of purpose and connection to the outside world. By visiting our parents regularly, we can help them to maintain a sense of connection to their loved ones and the outside world, which can be important for their emotional well-being.
- Quality of care: By visiting our parents regularly, we have the opportunity to observe their care and ensure that they are receiving the level of support and attention that they need. We can also use these visits as an opportunity to discuss any concerns or questions we may have with staff members or caregivers, and advocate for our parents if necessary.
- Staying connected to family history and traditions: Our parents are often a source of family history and traditions, and visiting them regularly can provide an opportunity to learn more about our family’s past and keep these traditions alive. It can also be a chance for our parents to share their experiences and wisdom with younger generations.
It is important to remember that, even though our parents may be living in an assisted care facility, we are still their loving children and an important part of their lives. While we may no longer be their primary caregivers, we can still play a vital role in their well-being and happiness by visiting them regularly and staying involved in their care.
If you are considering an assisted care facility for your elderly loved one, it is important to choose one that meets their needs and preferences.
At Summervale Care Centre, we are dedicated to providing our residents with the highest level of care and support, while also respecting their dignity, independence, and choice. Our trained nurses and caregivers are available 24/7 to assist with everything from personal care to medication management, and our up-market facilities are clean, comfortable, and well-maintained.
Don’t let guilt or stigma hold you back from making the best decision for your elderly loved one’s care and well-being. We are here to provide your loved one with the exceptional care and support that they deserve. Contact us today to learn more and to reserve a spot at our premier care facility.